What has been called "internal monads" are life transitions within the lifetime between perspectives. They are the punctuation points of the personality's journey of growth.
There are seven internal monads.. These are:
- Birth, where there is a transition from the non-physical to the physically incarnate
- The childhood monad, or "terrible twos", where there is a firm recognition of being separate from parents.
- "Out of the nest", where there is a recognition of being an adult and fully making one's own choices.
- The "mid-life crisis", where the manifestation of essence is placed as a priority.
- The "senior citizen's monad", where the life is reviewed and positive detachment can result.
- The recognition of death approaching and resulting changes.
- The death process itself
These processes are all concerned with the discovery of self. These discoveries and transitions are not imposed, but rather chosen. They are not a lesson plan, but instead an focus of learning, first on uniqueness and distinctness, and then on transcending physical identity and limits. From the view of internal monads, a lifetime is a journey first of differentiation (the first three monads), and then expanding self past physical limitations (the last three). It is a journey from the self to the Self.
Again, if you would like to look at all the internal monads, you will see that all of them are nothing but manifesting different phases of who you are. At birth, you're in a body. You have to learn detachment from who you were to connect to your body - that's a part of who you are. The second internal monad is detachment and separation from those who surround you and nurture you. The third internal monad is a further separation, moving into your own autonomy as an individual in the society you live in. The fourth internal monad is a separation energetically, not so much physically, again leaving you to manifest more of who you are, more independant of the role you learned to play in your family. The remaining monads bring more of your non-physical nature. And each time you are changing your perception as you begin to manifest more of who you are until, through the seventh internal monad, you are left with nothing but who you are - pure energy.
Each transition will have an expansive " pole", or manifestation - what is stereotypically known as "positive" - which is the expression of the energy with freedom and unrestrained ease. The contracted pole, or "negative" manifestation, involves resistance to the natural discoveries and movements of energy. The underlying insights and perceptions are always available, but a contracted awareness may block them from the surface. Such blockages can create difficulties and diseases, or at the minimum a lack of pleasant ease and joy in life in the areas it affects.
Going through each transition:
FIRST MONAD (Birth)
+Vitality -Survival
This transition is the most primal transition: that of entering the body end of anchoring yourself to the
physical plane. It is the time when basic pleasure and appreciation of your physical body is learned. Instincts that come from basic humanness are integrated into your the lowest levels of your identity. The root
chakra and
instinctive center are inhabited. The
expansive pole is
vitality, which is the anchoring of yourself to the body, fully inhabiting it, and committing to experiencing all that life has to offer on a primal, physical level. The contracted expression is
survival: being dragged along by physical needs and fears without involvement or investment of your basic energy. This relates to the contracted pole of the
observation mode, surveillance. Life is not truly lived, but only survived.
Many physical diseases later in life come from the residual cellular effects of resisting the intrinsic aliveness that comes from the complete surrender of being in a body with all that entails. Other signs of not completing the first internal monad in the
positive pole include a drastic lack of vitality and withdrawal from desire for connections of any sort. Studying children in which all nurturing is removed after birth will show many examples of this more contracted expression. Movement to the expansive pole involves learning self nurturing and appreciating the beauty of the physicality of your existence. Enjoy the vibrant colors around you, taste the sensual sounds that permeate your eardrums every moment, and rest in the comfort that exists of having something supporting you physically, underneath you, in every moment.
SECOND MONAD (Childhood)
+Identity -Non-Differentiation (Solipsism)
During the first two years of life there is a growing attachment to being in the physical body, but awareness has not been fully anchored in it. The reality of astral guides - from the dream worlds you always inhabit - can make as much sense at that age as what is physically seen by the eyes. The second transition is the creation of a separate emotional and mental identity, which is a further anchoring to the physical plane centered around the second chakra. It is a transition to operating with the knowledge that your desires, worldview and emotional reactions are not that of your parents and providers. This transition normally starts around age 2.
What is known as the "terrible twos" can be an expression of this transition. With the rampant loneliness in Western cultures, parents can have a tendency therein to overly bond with the natural undifferentiation of an infant beyond the usefulness of this bonding to the child. When the strength of this bond is clung two beyond its necessity, the parent resists the child's letting go that is part of this transition. The manifestation of a struggle is a frustration and sometimes outward rebellion that has been labelled the terrible twos.
On a deeper level this expression is a declaration of uniqueness and distinction. There is now a recognition that while they are still physically dependent on providers, they are no longer emotionally and energetically dependent. They have become more of a separate identity - more whole within themselves.
The ideal in environment for this this transition is a warm and comforting family where differences are appreciated and desires are valued and incorporated as an exciting part of the family.
Incomplete aspects of this transition can manifest in mental illnesses such as schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, or in general depression and lacklustre disconnection from desires. The result will largely depend on the nature of the interaction in childhood that in some way denied a distinct identity. Often this results in being very "thin skinned" and reactive because of the lack of differentiation between self and others. Mature or older souls, with their enhanced sensitivity, can become even more reactive because of their extra awareness and openness to energetic phenomena. Other signs of issues include lack of self-knowledge, which includes one's own basic desires, the awareness of where an emotional reaction originated, and how to impact immediate surroundings on a basic level. Desire for approval (or in some cases,
rejection or any clear reaction) will be strong. There is often a lack of ability to restrict others energy, emotion and desires from permeating the self. This can create both enhanced ability and instability with regards to interactions with others.
Approximately 30% of adults in Western cultures have largely restricted themselves to the energy contracted pole with the second monad. We do not mean to imply that this means they are
fully in the contracted pole. It is always a spectrum. On the other side, very few adults are always in the positive or expansive pole. All that this means that their basic emotional self is not fully differentiated, which in this culture is "normal".
More expansive manifestations include finding enjoyment in having an impact on others from a place of fullness, in pursuing one's own desires that are not echoes of others, having fair arguments, in feeling boundary emotions such as appropriate anger, and in being at peace with the sensation that something else - a person or an inanimate object - is completely "not me". A regular meditation of perceiving others as separate and "not me" will help transmute this energy into its more expansive nature. It is no accident that the perceptual
motto of the baby soul is "me and not me", whereas the motto of the
infant soul is "me and other me's". Manifesting
soul age is directly analogous to these life transitions. Monads mark the transition between world perceptual views and this includes what soul age perception is manifested.
THIRD MONAD ("out of the nest")
+Differentiation (Independence) -SeparationThis transition, deals with a complete separation from the parental dynamic. Whereas the second transition deals with emotional and energetic separation, this transition includes the developments of interpersonal
power and an identity within society. In other words, it is the transition to adulthood.
During this transition, the
moving center and third chakra becomes fully manifested. There is an increased desire to make an impact upon the world. This is greater than simply becoming a productive member of society and living on one's own. There is desire to prove one's uniqueness, to make an outward mark and to show one's power and influence. It is a
taking up of space. This can be in any number of ways, but will always focus on the unique and individual expression of an outward personality, which can be in very non-conformist ways and even antisocially. It thus lays the groundwork for the later manifestation of essence and the allowing of deeper levels of Self to blossom forth without struggle.
There are many examples of the archetype of this transition, such as in popular movies such as The Breakfast Club and high school sports dramas. While it is often associated with "teenage rebellion", rebellion only occurs when the surrounding parental figures exert themselves in a way that makes independence difficult. This exertion need not be overt. Any time a parental figure has not fully completed their own monad, they will automatically place energetic barriers to the transition of others going through the same monad. Movement in others, especially children,
always triggers movement,
reevaluation and an invitation for introspection in revisiting past choices.
Examples of expansive, "positive" manifestation through this monad occur when authority is perceived as nonthreatening. There is an independence of desire, thought and action, where there is no automatic obedience nor automatic rebellion. There is simply the putting forward or a distinctive outer self, irrespective of others.
In cultures in which they are is less loneliness and less instinctive holding on children to assuage that loneliness, this transition can be seamless and is often marked with a "coming of age" ceremony. This is not a graduation ceremony where responsibilities and powers are granted after the ceremony, but rather a joyful recognition of a successful transition into one's own personal power. In such cultures, responsibility and freedom is almost always given when asked to children and adolescents, as there is the knowledge that children rarely consciously ask for more than they can handle. The marked desire to restrict freedom of the under-aged in western society is a strong manifestation of leftover issues in the cultural identity regarding this transition. Power is sought by obtaining power over others rather than an instinctive authority from bringing forth the distinctive self. This power over others is from the lack of differentiation (desiring power to make up for a feeling of lack of power) rather than the honest desire to have an influence, which we would say is very positive.
What helps most in navigating this monad is a place to bring the distinctive Self. This is not an atmosphere of absolute safety, which has its own element of control and giving in to the abstract authority of creating a "safe space", but rather a very marked space for creativity, where any emotion can be brought, there is room for conflict and there are healthy examples of navigating the conflict in such a way that respects each other's autonomy.
As with all monads, support is best given by those who have fully transited their own into the expansive polarity of this particular monad. Again, no matter how well wishing, the aid of those with left over remnants of their own monad will resist others' transition if they are not willing to revisit their own choices.
FOURTH MONAD (manifestation of essence)
+Self Realization -ResignationIn the third transition there is the bringing forward of the distinctive self, which itself is the product of
imprinting - what is taught to the personality during the first 20 years of life. This includes what is called the "family ikon", which is a role that is played within the family and by extension within society at large. If this role - and the imprinted education about self giving to the
fragment - is at odds with the deeper energy from the essence of self, then dissonance and stress can be a result. There may be a feeling that "I am not me" or "I am not home, wherever I am physically". It is the midlife transition that creates the focus to become truly "who I am." It is this question, "who am I?" that is the hallmark of this transition.
This process of discovering true self is often - but not necessarily - a deeply introspective process. Where parents have a recognition of what underlying energies the child is bringing and adapt their parenting interactions to this, what is developed and imprinted in the child will be very close to the underlying essence energy. The seeds that have been planted were picked to match.
Often, but not necessarily only at this time, the
life task is focused on. This is the direction the soul planed to investigate when creating the structure of the lifetime. The reason this is focused on it this time is because the additional energy of essence manifestation creates a geyser of energy which can help focus intention and the creative potential of the lifetime. However, this is not in any way a rule or restriction. It is not uncommon for the focus on the life task to start in early childhood. At that time decisions leading the personality to the task it will tend to be automatic. For example, there might be a compulsion to investigate music, to work collaboratively, or to study interactions between people. These are examples of expressions of an underlying life task. This transition, the manifestation of essence, will bring a conscious recognition that these choices at a younger age were in reality a deep expression of Self.
This transition relates to the
mature soul perception in that it is the beginning of an opening to greater possibilities, where realizations occur that the Self is far greater than what has been known and is connected to everything else in the
universe. Relationships aquire more depth. Creativity can become more marked.
The "life crisis" has been thought to be a difficult and traumatic encounter, where careers are changed, and relationships can end. This is largely untrue. A universal expression of essence manifestation is fluidity and effortless movement in life. Difficulty only results when the urges and echoes from within are struggled against. The expansive manifestation of this transition is Self-Realization, which can also be called "conscious creation".
Conscious creation by definition is the manifestation of essence. The converse is also valid: conscious creation is near impossible without the inclusion of essence.
This transition will often start at approximately age 35 but may take years or decades. Given the format of most careers there is almost an innate resistance in society to the reevaluation that may result in radical choices - even if radical choices are themselves is rare, it is always a possibility. Manifestation of all of essence will always result in a greater awareness of possibilities. However, essence will almost always be satisfied with keeping the same relationship or the same career, albeit from a conscious choice and inclusion of its greater possibilities.
FIFTH MONAD (Senior Citizen)
+Appreciation -Evaluation
Karen did channeling during a workshop on this transition. You can read more on Details of the 5th Internal Monad at Twin Oaks and the earlier Channeling on the 5th Internal Monad.
The fifth transition triggered by some recognition that most of the life has already been lived. There is awareness that while death is not imminent, it is inevitable. This triggers a life review, where choices of the life thus lived may relax into a greater surrender and acceptance. This corresponds loosely to the old-soul perspective.
The transition starts with a "going-within", that is, a reflection on one's life and one's accomplishments, balancing this with what the fragment had aspired to accomplish during the lifetime. Often there is a reflection of agreements, karma, etc along with past-life associations and lessons that have come to bear during the present life. Thismonad is a time for reflection, not action.
The choice at this point is whether to embrace the changes that are occurring or to resist them further. These changes may be societal (retirement), in the physical body (a physical degradation) or in emotions and hormonal changes. A greater detachment is invited which involves moving in to the intrinsic knowledge that comes with being a senior citizen. Because this cultural largely dismisses wisdom that comes from the ultimately, there can be a lack of cultural support for embracing this transition and the inherent power that comes from surrendering to it. Historically, fragments entering their "senior" years were revered and honored. Their gifts were recognized and they were kept as important functioning members of their communities.
In the beginning of this process, there can be a level of isolation because of the review involved in this process. However, this transition can also in its more expansive manifestations create what looks like a more extroverted personality because there is less attachments to identity and societal roles. There can be more freedom, more acting without restraint in harmony with essence, and more living the archetype of the "wise teacher". Confidence comes from a greater awareness of the connections to essence. Even if the physical body decays and dies this connection will never be lost. You can see how this requires a relaxation away from societal image of what "being a person" means. It is the appreciation of all that being physical means that leads one to the detachment and power that comes from this transition.
SIXTH MONAD (Dying)
+Catharsis -Capitulation
The sixth internal monad gets one ready physically to no longer require the body for operation. This requires a further acceptance and relaxation into and away from the body. It is humorously ironic that it takes you a lifetime to be comfortable with your body, and it is often only in this life transition that complete detachment and acceptance occurs. After expansively finishing the fifth internal monad you finally accept this body that you have, and then you move into the sixth internal monad where it's time to give it up again. Most times it manifest as a physical deterioration to prepare one for moving away from the body.
Physical aspects aside, the sixth internal monad is at its fundamental level a complete relaxation into Self. Why does this manifest as physical deterioration? Self is not the body, but is rather connected to the physical plane and the body. This complete relaxation into self is about getting ready to accept the self as the Self that is detached from the body. You connect to this Self through every dream you have, but this monad is about bringing the greater awareness into the perception you live through, even if it means a great detachment from the body.
Understand that part of the acceptance of the body that comes from the fifth internal monad could be manifesting elements of deterioration that give you something more to work on in terms of accepting about yourself. The sixth internal monad, then, is both more removed and further than that, and tends to move you into a place, again, where you become more ready to separate from your body and separate from the attachment of "this body is me, is who I am", and a deeper sense of realization that you are this inner soul, this essence within you. Your sense of identity is now largely as the essence, rather than as a being who has a connection to something greater than you that is you.
The sixth internal monad tends to move you into a placewhere you become more ready to separate from your body and separate from the attachment of "this body is me, is who I am", and a deeper sense of realization that you are this inner soul, this essence within you. That is who you are and the body is just a piece of clothing that you wear for particular lifetime.
When a person starts the sixth, do they noticeably start sleeping more and spend more astral time than before, as a general principle. Because you are less attached to the body, you're spending more time astrally. This process can take several years or it can happen very quickly, depending on how attached you are already to your body and many other factors.
What is viewed culturally and societally as dementia is something that can arise in either the fifth internal monad or the sixth. It is more typical within the sixth internal monad, because that is again part of this separation from body, and what is really occurring during what is seen as dementia is simply that the person on an essence level is moving away from having a strong connection with the body and is exploring other projects and other ways of being. There can be fears attached to this which then have other repercussions. The person can move in and out of those states which can be very perplexing to others and rather confusing for the individual themselves, who finds cognitive moments and then moments of this other reality and having trouble relating the one to the other. It also can occur within the context of the fifth internal monad, and that tends to be more of a life choice to experience other realities, to experience reality as themselves as an earlier person in that lifetime or experience more astral level interaction.
SEVENTH MONAD (Death)
+Rebirth -Death
This transition is the dying process itself. The connection to the physical body is transcended and released and there is a final physical surrender to the greater self, the essence that has always being there. Depending on the resistance to this process, there can be absolute elation or incredible pain. The human body - and the bodies of all species on the physical plane - are built so that detachment and disconnection is facilitated during trauma or when death is imminent. However, any belief that one must cling to the body at all costs will block this intrinsic knowledge.
While this transition begins on the physical plane, it ends on the astral plane with the help of your guides and teachers. There is always assistance and support. After it is completed the life review begins, which will take some 'time' on the astral plane. (Time does not function in a similar manner in that reality)
This transition requires a great adjustment in your perception; there is a large difference in perceptual input between the senses of your body on the physical plane and the expanded inputs that come your greater self on the astral plane. This adjustment that begins during the sixth transition grows to a rushing pace during the death process itself.
To those unfamiliar with out of body experience this can be replete with anxiety. Assistance can be given by surrounding those dying process with centered hospice workers who support the emotional, physical and mental release necessary. Helpful support is largely not through intellectual counseling, but rather through symbolic teachings and right brain activity such as through archetypes, shamanism and song. Being in the presence of the rush of energy that comes through death can be a great support to those living as it fuels their own transitions and helps one connect in a greater fashion to their own greater self that is always present within, transcending, beyond the body throughout all periods of life.
Commentary
[Channeled]
While these transitions are presented as linear, the process is experienced linearly only in extremely rare cases. Moving to another transition is not like moving from grade three to grade four, for example. It is always an evolving process, and there is continual review and opportunity for new choices and expanding perspectives at any point of life. You can always choose to go back and look at something again. You are never restricted by past choices. You also can choose to stop the progress through an internal monad for a time and pick it up later if you want - or choose not to. You can also do it in another lifetime. Interestingly enough, we would say that a thought that "one is done" with a monad and an earlier perspective is almost always a sign that there is some contracted energy that could be further released.
Again, there is no absolute linear progression. You, and all your choices, are multidimensional and are subject only to the rules that you yourselves create through your beliefs. You must not always finish something before starting something else. There is always room to move back. There is always room to stop, to choose to not do something. Likely most of you know someone who never finished something; they are still living their lives and doing okay, but perhaps you feel that there is maybe a sense of incompleteness there. That is a choice. You can feel it, others can feel it, and perhaps they can feel it also, but they've made that choice, and it is fundamentally perfect as it is.
We find that there is a lot of energy attributed to the terms "positive" or "negative" pole, which we have deliberately renamed "expanded" and "contracted" because of the greater understanding possible that comes from this neutrality. Culturally, you think of "positive" as something good, "negative" as something bad as opposed to how these terms are used with respect to electric charges. To us they are simply two parts of a whole. It is not necessarily "good" to go through things in the positive mode; it's simply more complete, more full and more expansive. It would not be expansive without including the contracted energy. There is no judgment attached to moving things through the contracted poles or living therein. It's simply one choice of how to move through your perception.
Typically, moving through a particular internal monad will bring things up from a prior internal monad, experiences that were either left undone or that you would like to look at again for a variety of reasons. Not necessarily because it was undone, but perhaps it just correlates or helps fill in the picture for something in your life now, or helps illuminate something for you. Perhaps your essence like that issue and likes looking at it, in which case you'll provide yourself with opportunities to do so time and again. Again it is rare that anyone is "one-hundred percent completed" any particular perspective; there is always a spectrum and always a connection to past perspectives, much like you are connected to your past at all times via the present moment.
Transitions, Chakras and Centers
Because a transition is essentially a shift in perception, it involves the deepening of the most fundamental of your processing of input, perception, and energy: your chakras, which are the inputs for your energetic centers. Each transition invites a new openness, awareness, and complexity in the energetic makeup of each of your chakras. For a transition to be completed fully in the expansive pole, all centers must have undergone this shift. When the transition is not completed, there is usually a particular energetic blockage or damage in a chakra which will greatly influence how any contracted pole energy manifests.
For an example of how damage may manifest, most schizophrenics have 6th chakra issues that developed in the second internal monad. The issues in this monad relate to a sense of individuality and beingness distinct from others, whereas the sixth chakra relates to extrasensory perception and the "third eye". The result is usually where the alternate realities that are within the potential of the third eye to see cannot be turned off easily.
Each monad also has a fulcrum of a particular chakra. This is the energetic " center" of the shift in perception.
- The first monad, birth, relates to the root chakra. The essence energy is "anchored" in the body, as are past life information and other instinctive center knowledge, and a relationship is built to the survival instincts of the body.
- The second monad is centered around the issues of the second chakra, which are knowledge of the inner self as separate from others, a basic relationship to others, sexuality, and creating what you want in life.
- The third internal monad relates to manifesting the outward self and developing a sense of personal power in relating to others, which centers on the solar plexus.
- The fourth internal monad involves the heart chakra, connection to essence and opening to an essenced-based connection to others and the world.
- The fifth internal monad is about perspective and teaching and involves the throat chakra.
- The sixth chakra involves opening to the greater universe and transcendent energies and is centered around the third eye.
- The seventh chakra is about surrendering to the greater You through the process of death and is focused on the crown chakra.
Example:
The woman Daphne had a mother who had not completed her second internal monad fully. Because of this, Daphne's mother did not treat Daphne as a separate being and identified fully with her thoughts, desires, and accomplishments. Expression of individuality was reacted to on some level as a hostile act, though there was superficial recognition of distinctness. Cording was established. The fiercely maintained connection resulted in a damaged second and thirdchakras that sourced from a dissuaded second internal monad. Daphne did eventually leave home, but the marriage she agreed was essentially one where she felt owned because of this same second chakra connection. After the dissolution of the marriage and a good deal of time alone, she started trusting her energetic intuition and ability to create a boundary of self which helped her revisit some of this transition which helped her move to more expansive energy.
The development that each chakra undergoes relates to the difference in perception of "soul ages". It is the development of chakra that enables the true manifestation of soul ages, though there will always be some bleedthrough of manifestation even at an early age. There is also a relationship in that to fully manifest a soul age perception, all previous soul age perceptions must be allowed and validated. You cannot fully love being a mature adult until you allow and love being the child that is always within the adult. This relates as well to the internal monads: the way to the expansive pole of any monad involves truly loving all that has come before, all that has made you Who You Are.
Life Transitions as Applied to Cultures
Question: Are the monads and levels within the monads more universal? Do they apply, for instance, to small organizations, large organizations in their stages of growth - even to nations and cultures (it takes longer, of course)? Is this a universal pattern of growth?
As you are aware, there is a consciousness to everything - everything around you. Any time there is a group that forms there exists, through the energy that is given to that group, a consciousness to that collective entity. And there will be in some fashion a similar pattern followed through the evolution of that consciousness. In larger groups, such as nations, there is a great deal of energy that is given to the formation, manifestation and continuation of those entities. This energy will be tied to the land inhabited as an integral whole. That energy is sustained on a long-term basis and then becomes something that attracts the energy of the evolution similar to that you are moving through on the physical planes in these life transitions. Anything with consciousness on the physical plane will move through - at least in some loose fashion - a similar progression to what you experience in the physical body. So the answer to that question is yes.
In terms of the United States, we would say it is in between the second and third internal monad at this point. China is in between the fourth and fifth internal monad. Italy, as it stands now is a younger nation than one would think as it has been separated from Rome and the Roman Empire. Italy as it stands now is just entering the third internal monad. An example of a fifth internal monad culture would be Iceland. Also parts of India - the mountainous parts in the Himalayas. Tibet.
Small areas can be "older" than in the fifth internal monad, but not entire nations, because of the more arbitrary division of political power around regions. But there are certainly physical regions that are in the sixth internal monad - very small ones. Not enough to have a great deal of impact on the energy of the areas around them. That kind of impact would cause a great deal of disruption, because it would be the separation of self from the physicalness in which case that could have a very disruptive effect on all life in that area. So again there are very small regions that could be considered as moving through the sixth internal monad. And these would be areas that would be undergoing a large amount of physical destruction.